The Mindless Musings of a Lost Girl

The Mindless Musings of a Lost Girl Hello there. My name is Dani and I am a lost girl.

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Criticism

Some criticism is such a delight to those who welcome it. A friendly pointer here and there can keep a person on track to bring themselves towards perfection.

When it comes to criticism being heard in the middle of a process, it can be a formidable bother to one’s ear.
Why is this?
We are ambitious enough to try to strive for perfection ourselves. We indulgence ourselves in our own work that it aches to hear about our own imperfections on our journey.

It’s best to wait until the end for the work to have it’s final judgement. In the end you will see our full potentials and our hiden colors. The true masterpiece will finally shine the way it was meant to be.

When the final product is not nearly what was expected, judgement should still be reserved until it is asked. When it is asked, we will learn from what was wrong and we will strive for even better in the next run.

“No Offense” is Offense.

To a certain point, “no offense” is taken as offense. One may have a great endorsement of their choice, but when a statement is followed by “no offense” the attitude of it can be changed from having pride to feeling shame for one’s self.